TOM MITFORD BIOGRAPHY BY WILLIAM CROSS

Tom Mitford in Drag

At a party in 1929

"Quite fetching, what?"

TOM MITFORD  : 1909-1945

  SHORT TIME LINE

1904  :  Tom’s parents  Hon. David Bertram Ogilvy  Freeman-Mitford   and Sydney Bowles marry in London.

1904 :  Tom’s sister Nancy born  28 November.

1907 : Tom’s sister Pamela born 25 November.

1909 : Tom born 3 January at 1 Graham Street, London.

1909 : Tom baptised on 10 February as Thomas David Freeman-Mitford.

1910 : Tom’s sister Diana born 17 June.

1911 :  Tom at Undercliff Road, Boscombe, Bournemouth on the  Census Return.

1914  : War declared on 28 July.

1914 : Tom’s sister Unity born 8 August.

1914 :  Tom’s father David goes to war with the Northumberland Fusiliers.

1915 : Death of Tom’s uncle Hon. Clement  Freeman-Mitford heir to the Barony of Redesdale, eldest brother of David on 13 May.

1915 : Tom’s father David becomes heir to the Barony of Redesdale on 13 May. Tom becomes an ‘Honourable’.

1916: Death of Tom’s paternal grandfather ‘Bartie’ Freeman-Mitford:  Lord Redesdale  17 August.

1916 : Tom’s father David becomes Lord Redesdale, Tom is next heir in waiting.

1917 : Tom’s sister Jessica born  11 September.

1918-9 :  Batsford Park : The Mitford Family Home sold off.

1919: Asthall Manor : Acquired as  the new Mitford Family  Homestead.

1919: Tom goes off to Lockers Park Preparatory School, Hemel Hempstead.

1920: Tom’s sister Deborah born 31 March.

1922 : Tom’s maternal grandfather ‘Tap’ Bowles dies 12 January

1922 : Tom goes to Eton College as an Oppidan Scholar  at Lent Term under House Tutor FW Dobbs in Jourdelay House

1922-1928 : Tom’s Eton College  key contemporaries include James Lees-Milne, ( diarist) Randolph Churchill ( son of Winston), Nigel Birch  ( politician)  and  Edward James ( Poet)

1924-7 : Tom joins  Cadets C.Q.M.S. Eton College. Contgt and  later 16^th London Regiment

1926 : David  , Tom’s father,  pet family name of  ‘Farve’ takes a long lease on 26 Rutland Gate, South Kensington, London SW7 with adjoining stables and a Mews flat.

c 1928 : Tom loses his virginity with Baroness ‘ Baba’ De’ Erlanger, having previously  engaged in homosexual affairs at Eton  with Hamish Erskine, Robert Byron, and others.

1928 : Tom leaves Eton College having made a name for himself in sport, drama and in musical events.  Rejects going to University in England.

1922-1930s : Tom’s six sisters reach their ‘coming out’ years as debutantes and are presented at Court by Sydney, pet family name  Muv.

1928 : Tom begins his travels through Europe, including to  Italy, Germany,  Austria and Hungary,  for pleasure and to study  music and law.

1928-1939 :  Tom stays as a paying guest at Castle Bernstein  meets Count, Janos Almassi  and his neighbours including two sisters,  the Countesses Erdody. Tom  remains in close touch with regular visits for a decade and more  and has  Intimate / carnal affairs with them ( almost certainly sexually deviant).

1928 : Tom has  romantic flings in Vienna and Berlin with Penelope Cunard and others.

1929 : Tom returns to England to the family  homes in London and Swinbrook.

1929 : Tom enrols as a trainee  barrister at the Inner Temple.

1920s-30s : Tom shares a flat with Randolph Churchill and later has his own flat at 4 Rutland Mews.

1929 : Bruno Hat Hoax – Tom is importuned by Lytton Strachey

1929 : Tom meets Tilly Losch ( Austrian ballet dancer and later Hollywood  actress) in Paris and begins a 10-year-long affair.

C1929-1944 : Tom has a series of carnal affairs with numerous women including  Baroness Baba D’erlanger, Doris Castlerosse,  Lady Diana Cooper, Janetta Woolley, Penelope Dudley Ward,  Sheilah Graham, Barbara,   Countess of Moray,  Lady Carolyn Paget,  La Jana, and  Tilly Losch

1930s : Tom is flying with the Auxiliary Air Force and has an accident.

1930-1: Tom is a part of the Mitford family ski-ing and skating trips to Switzerland.

1932 :Tom is called to the Bar and begins to seek briefs  and has own London flat at 4 Rutland Mews with a housekeeper.

1933 -1940s : Tom is active in the Territorials – “Queens Westminsters”.

1930s  : Tom is involved in running “ The Worst Play Club” and regular first nighter.

1933 : Tom provides support to his sister Diana during her divorce from Bryan Guinness.

1933-34 : Tom’s affair with Tilly Losch reaches a crisis point with Tilly’s divorce from Edward James.

1934 : Tom is junior consul in the Haddon “ Letters to the King” blackmail scandal.

1935 : Tom Is junior consul in the Rattenbury  Murder Case defending “Stoner”.

1935- 1939 : Tom is on call  as aid/driver / companion for his sisters Diana and Unity during conquest of Germany and pursuit of Adolf Hitler. Tom meet Hitler and attends several Nazi Rallys at Nuremberg. Back in England  Tom also joins Oswald Mosley’s BUF. 

1936 : Tom’s mistress Tilly Losch leaves Britain for USA (  she returns 1938) and has a holiday with tom in Austria. Tilly goes to a TB clinic in Switzerland

1937 : Tom is involved in the “ Ward of Court” application over  elopement of his sister Decca with Esmond Romilly.  Tom defends sister Deborah in a legal action for libel against the “Daily Express”.

1938 : Tom in a dilemma over the Munich crisis and invasion of Austria.

1938 : Tom is made up to Deputy Judge Advocate  General dealing  with Court Martials.

1939 : Tom is called up for  full time military service as war clouds form over Europe.

1937-9 : Tom supports his father “Farve” in pro –German speeches  in The House of Lords.

1939 : Tom attends a BUF meeting at Earls Court  addressed by Oswald Mosley and salutes – his former mistress  Tilly ( a Jewess)  attends with Randolph Churchill and leaves in horror.  She ends the relationship with Tom. Tom is trouble for taking the salute to Mosley.

1940-1944 : Tom is  army training and posted with the “ Queens Westminsters” to Italy, North Africa and Palestine. 

1940s : Tom ( with Muv) makes representations to Winston Churchill to have Diana and Oswald Mosley  ( interned  as a danger to the state)  brought together in one prison – and this was achieved.

1944:  Tom spends 6 months back in London at Army Staff College – Several references of note covering the period in James Lees-Milne Diaries.

1945 : Tom reassigned to a  Unit away from the European land mass  goes as Adjutant to  1 Battn Devonshire Regiment – in  the jungles of Burma.

1945 : March Tom is wounded and transferred to hospital where he dies on  30 March 1945.

1946?  : Farve has  the memorial  to   “ A Very Perfect Son and Brother “  for Tom placed in St Mary’s Church, Swinbrook.

1948 : Death of Unity Mitford in Scotland.

1958 : Farve Dies at Otterburn, Northumberland –  his last years are  spent with his mistress.

1963 : Muv Dies at Inch Kenneth – the Scottish Island owned by Tom.

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The only brother of the Outrageous Mitford Sister

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